Safer Schools Together acknowledges that as the traumatic events unfold in Israel, some students and families will require additional support processing complex emotions. These events can bring about many anxieties and fears for children and adults. It is important during this time that we support each other. Parents and guardians are encouraged to discuss/monitor their children’s social media use as images/videos being circulated are incredibly graphic and disturbing.
Any indicators of potential threat-related behavior and/or targeted towards others must be reported immediately to your local authorities and/or school officials.
Below are helpful tips for adults in supporting children/students:
- Provide a safe space for them to share their feelings and concerns – listen and validate; fear, anger, confusion, worry, insecurity and other reactions are to be expected.
- Let their questions be the guide – do not share or expose them to unnecessary details; limit exposure to news and social media.
- It’s ok to not have all the answers but to emphasize the importance of getting factual information and limiting exposure to misinformation.
- Provide general, brief facts with an emphasis on what adults and individuals can do to keep themselves and others safe.
- Ensure they know where to find a trusted adult and support resources.
- Model being calm and in-control. Children look to adults on how to react.
- Keep a schedule and routine. This provides a sense of predictability which can lessen anxieties.
- Engage with social supports. Now is the time to support each other.
Most importantly, remember the importance of your own self-care, adults must also reach out to supports. You are a greater help to your children/students if you also have others supporting you.
Additional guidance can be found on the NASP website and the NCTSN website.